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Hello

I am a certified Systemic Family Psychotherapist and supervisor, affiliated with the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) and the Association of Family and Systemic Practice, as well as a member of the British Psychological Society.

With over 15 years of experience, I have worked with children, teenagers, adults, couples, and families in both NHS and private environments. Fluent in English and Portuguese, I believe that even during the most challenging times of family distress, there exists a deep-seated yearning for connection and that finding a therapist who understands the complex intersection of mental health, disadvantage and difference, culture, and family dynamics is truly important.

When I'm not in the clinic, you can often find me exploring the coastline, immersed in a book, and savoring a peaceful cup of coffee.

My Journey

My journey into psychotherapy has been shaped as much by who I am as by where I have trained. Growing up across different cultures gave me an early and intimate understanding of what it means to live between worlds — to navigate different languages, expectations, and ways of belonging simultaneously. That experience of holding multiple identities at once, and of sometimes feeling like an outsider, has profoundly influenced the way I work. It gave me a deep curiosity about culture, difference, and the stories we inherit from the families and communities we grow up in. Becoming a parent deepened this further. It brought me face to face with the complexity of family life — the love, the exhaustion, the moments of rupture and repair, and the humbling realisation that even the most devoted parent cannot always find the right words or know the right thing to do. I carry that awareness into every session.

My clinical experience across CAMHS, adult, and inpatient settings has shown me that distress takes many different forms depending on age, context, and the systems around a person. Working with children and young people, adults in crisis, and families navigating some of the most difficult moments of their lives has taught me to hold complexity without rushing toward simple answers. I have a particular interest in working with bilingual and multicultural families, where questions of identity, belonging, and cultural loyalty are often woven into the fabric of everyday relationships. Language carries history, emotion, and meaning in ways that matter in therapy. I offer sessions in both English and Portuguese, and I welcome families where different languages, cultures, and traditions coexist.

I am also deeply committed to working in ways that are gender inclusive, attentive to issues of power — both within relationships and within the wider social and cultural contexts that shape them — and sensitive to neurodiversity. I believe that therapy must start from a position of genuine respect for difference, and that embracing the full complexity of who each person is — their gender identity, their neurological profile, their cultural background, their experience of power and marginalisation — is not a footnote to good therapy but absolutely central to it. Above all, I bring to this work a belief that people are the experts on their own lives, and that my role is to create a space that is safe enough for something new to emerge.

My Training and Approach

My approach is warm, collaborative, and non-judgmental. I don't look at people as "problems to be fixed"; instead, I look at the relationships, histories, strengths, and patterns surrounding them. Together, we work to uncover what is affecting you and your life, and build practical, evidence-based ways of moving towards the change you want to see happen in your life.

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I have specialised in Systemic Family Psychotherapy, integrating several approaches. My specialised training includes:

  • Training in Narrative Therapy and Narrative Attachment Therapy.

  • Attachment-based family therapy (ABFT): specialised support for depression and rupture repair.

  • Family Therapy for Anorexia Nervosa (FT-AN) and Bulimia Nervosa (FT-BN), and MANTRA: supporting individuals and families navigating the complexities of eating disorders.

  • Emotion-Focused Psychotherapy: for individuals and couples.

  • Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR):  supporting healing from traumatic experiences.

  • RO-DBT: a specialised therapy for individuals whose lives are affected by a tendency towards 'over-control' (e.g., perfectionistic, excessive self-control, difficulty understanding certain social rules, and embracing vulnerability), causing emotional loneliness, unhappiness, and isolation. 

  • Neurodiverse-affirming & culturally sensitive practice, including systemic autism-related family enabling (SAFE) therapy: ensuring therapy feels safe, inclusive, and tailored to your unique identity.

I have been working with children, teenagers, families, and adults for over 15 years in both statutory and voluntary settings. Alongside my private practice, I continue to work for the NHS as a systemic family psychotherapist.

 

I work with a wide range of difficulties, including:

  • Anxiety and depression

  • Relationship and communication difficulties

  • Family conflict and breakdown - Eating disorders

  • Trauma and bereavement

  • Life transitions and identity

  • Parenting challenges

  • Neurodiversity

PSA logo accredited psychotherapist

Tania Pombeiro Psychotherapy Services 

The Practice Rooms, 9/11 Lower Goat Lane
Norwich, NR2 1EL

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